March 4, 2008

Marching into Spring

HAPPY ST. PATRICK'S DAY...
and EASTER
and WOMEN'S HISTORY MONTH
and FIRST DAY OF SPRING
and SET YOUR CLOCKS AHEAD ONE HOUR!

Visit My Mail Stamp!
Welcome to the abbreviated, "Spring Break" edition of the March, 2008 SOS Porch Light newsletter! Although the SOS Support Group will not meet this month, I wanted the opportunity to prepare one final newsletter before I officially move on.

As some of you may already know, my life has taken an interesting twist...My husband recently accepted a position in San Francisco...which means we will be moving to California in the foreseeable future. While it is not easy to leave the friendships, comforts and support of the Houston community, Tony and I recognize the greatness of this opportunity and are ready to pursue the next chapter of our lives.

It has been such an honor to know you as individuals and as well as a group. I have come to respect and appreciate each of you for the unique strengths you possess and will miss you very much.

For those of you who participated in the book project, I remain especially grateful and forever in your debt. I can never repay you for your courage and acts of faith. Because of your efforts, we now have a fund established with
M. D. Anderson from the book proceeds which benefits Lobular Breast Cancer research. In addition, our book continues to do well at Amazon.com

It has also been my pleasure to present you with the SOS Porch Light for the past several months and I thank you all for your kind feedback, support and frequent contributions. It's a wonderful legacy and I encourage you all to keep it going. If anyone is available to take-over the newsletter duties, please contact Marsha Yeager or Rosemary Herron.

I hope to see you during a future visit to Houston (check-ups and MDA Annual 3-day Caregiver Conference) and invite you to look me up if your travels bring you to the Bay area.

Until then....I'll be waiting for you on the other side of the Golden Gate Bridge!

BIG HUG, Josie

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Stop SPECIAL NOTICE:

This is a reminder that there will be no SOS Support Group meeting in March due to Spring Break, however the group will reconvene again in April at Holy Cross Episcopal Church as usual. (Directions below)

Also, as a reminder, please notify Marsha Yeager if you will be a 5-year survivor this year, 2008. (Survivorship is marked from the date that you are diagnosed going forward.) Survivors will be honored at our last meeting in May. Please call ( 281 431 0700) or email (marshayeager@yahoo.com ) if you will be an honoree. Thank you.

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Crutches SOS SURVIVOR UPDATE

Marsha Yeager

Well-wishes and lots of prayers go to Marsha as she remains homebound following recent knee surgery. We continue to send positive thoughts for a speedy recovery. You can forward a personal note to marshayeager@yahoo.com

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From Rosemary Herron:

Rosemary Herron has the new 2008-2009 Pink Phurree Dragon Boat Calendar in case anyone is interested in purchasing one. The cost is $25 for the two-year calendar. Rosemary Herron and Rosemary Barr are both featured in the calendar together! How cute!

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Marty Imper is sporting a very new and very cute Pink Ribbon tattoo. Please contact Marty if you are interested in learning more about this option. A portion of the proceeds will be donated to breast cancer research.

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Clothes Line SPRING CLEANING - Tips
Get Organized Now
(featured column)

10 Spring Cleaning and Organizing Tips
by Maria Gracia

Along with Spring comes thoughts of crisp, fresh air, newly budding flowers, singing birds and a sense of renewal. Getting organized and doing a bit of spring cleaning, helps to bring that wonderful fresh feeling into your home and office.

Here are 10 tips to help you start the season off right:

Iron ASSIGN YOURSELF A DIFFERENT TASK FOR EACH DAY
Make yourself a schedule that is comprised of one hour and one task each day. Your schedule may look something like this:

Monday: Decluttering
Tuesday: Dusting
Wednesday: Vacuuming
Thursday: Scrubbing
Friday: Organizing and Rearranging
Saturday: Laundering
Sunday: Decorating

Then, spend one hour each day doing your assigned task for each room, throughout your house. You'll be amazed at the difference you can make in your home by following this simple system.

USE THE PROPER TOOLS Vacuum
When cleaning and organizing, it's important to use tools that help you get the job done as quickly as possible.

For instance, there are now dusting cloths that allow you to dust quickly and easily, without any additional sprays. Just dust and be done with it.

Rubber gloves will help you deep clean, without drying out your hands, exposing them to harsh chemicals, or burning them in hot water.

Racks can hold mops, brooms and other cleaning supplies in one organized place, rather then storing them loose and having them constantly tip over.

An apron with lots of pockets, can help you transport cleaning products from room to room easily, so you don't have to keep running back and forth to get what you need.
Feather Duster BE RUTHLESS WHEN IT COMES TO DECLUTTERING
If you don't love it, and/or you don't use it, it's clutter. It's the perfect time to embrace the Feng Shui art of uncluttered living. Feng Shui teaches that if energy can easily flow through a room, your life will be more harmonious and happy--and clutter is an obstacle to reaching this relaxed and calm state.

Make it a quest of yours to be ruthless when it comes to your decluttering efforts. You'll have less to dust, less clutter to look it, an easier time finding the things you do use and less stress in your life.

DONATE OR SELL THE THINGS YOU DON'T USE
If you have items that you don't use, but are in good condition, they are prime candidates to sell or donate. Gather all of these items together in boxes or plastic bags.

Then, decide whether you would prefer to donate them or sell them.
If you choose to donate, consider giving them to your local Salvation Army, or perhaps even a shelter or orphanage in town. Many of these organizations will even pick up your donations for you.

If you choose to sell, you might set a date for a yard sale. Or, take some photos of these items with your digital camera, and put them up for sale at an online auction Web site.

MAKE YOUR SPRING CLEANING AND ORGANIZING FUN
Don't think of it as a chore. Instead, think of it as a 'feel good' exercise--one that will really help you to feel good about yourself and your clean and organized environment.

Play some lively, fun, upbeat music. Dance your way through your home or office with your dust rag or vacuum.

Get the family involved. Give everyone a task, and then do something relaxing afterwards, like watching a movie together or going to the park for a walk.

Set timers and play 'beat the clock.' Give yourself time limits for completing small tasks, and try to complete those tasks before the timer goes off.

Ask a friend to help, or do a swap. You clean her living room if she'll clean your kitchen.

ELIMINATE DISTRACTIONS
Turn off the TV while you're cleaning and organizing, and let your answering machine field your calls.

If a friend stops by while you're working, simply tell him/her that you've scheduled this time for spring cleaning. He or she is free to stay, as long as you could continue working. Perhaps, you might even get some help. If not, tell your friend you'll stop by his or her house later on when you're done.

If you have kids, give them their own jobs to do, or at minimum, be sure they're occupied with something else.

The quickest and best jobs are accomplished when there are no distractions.

Check Mark MAKE YOURSELF A CHECKLIST
Make a checklist of all springtime jobs that you only do once or twice a year.

Perhaps you might bring your large comforters to the laundromat, bring your drapes, and winter coats, to the dry cleaners, store your winter clothes and bring your warm-weather clothes out of hiding or check the smoke detectors.

If all of these odd jobs are on a list, you won't forget to do them. Then, try to do at least one or two of these odd jobs per week, throughout spring.

DON'T FORGET ABOUT THE INSIDES
It's important to clean and organize things that are in sight all of the time. But, it's also important to remember those items that are out of sight.

Spring is a great season to organize your closets, cabinets, drawers, bins, boxes, pantry and other inside storage areas.

Give yourself that spring feeling, both inside and out!

ENJOY THE WEATHER WHILE YOU'RE WORKING
Do some outside organizing and yard work, so you can be accomplishing something, but also enjoying the nice weather at the same time.

Gather your gardening and planting supplies in one place. Replace old and broken tools. Perhaps you might even get a gardening caddie to store your good gardening tools.

Clean the garage. Keep the garage door open while you're doing so, so that you can enjoy the nice weather.
OPEN YOUR WINDOWS Window
There's nothing like taking in a breath of fresh air. As you're cleaning, open the windows. You'll be removing musty winter odors, protecting yourself from inhaling harsh fumes from cleaning products and the fresh air will keep you going.

While you're at it, let the sun shine in. Open curtains and drapes to give yourself plenty of light, for an energy boost.

Copyright © by Maria Gracia, author of Finally Organized, Finally Free! All rights reserved.
Getting Organized Article Index
http://www.betterbudgeting.com/articles/organizing/springcleaning.htm

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Visit My Mail Stamp! FROM THE KITCHEN:

Easter Brunch - March 23rd

Looking for brunch ideas for Easter Sunday? Try something new!

Easter Egg Recipe #1 Vanilla Spice French Toast With Apple

Ingredients
1 egg
2 egg whites
1 teaspoon vanilla extract
cinnamon , dash
nutmeg , dash
2 slices whole grain bread
1/2 medium apple , sliced

Directions
Whisk eggs, vanilla and spices together.
Dip bread into egg mixture.
Spray skillet with cooking spray and saute bread on each side until brown (about 3 minutes).
Top with apple slices.
Source: Recipe Zaar
http://www.recipezaar.com/289728

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Recipe #2 Ham and Cheese Quiche Easter Egg

Ingredients
2 red potatoes , cubed
1 tablespoon dried rosemary
1 cup cubed ham
1 pie crust , in foil pan (premade, 8 or 9 inch)
1 cup shredded colby-monterey jack cheese , blend (recommended Kraft)
3 eggs
1 cup milk
1 teaspoon all-purpose seasoning (recommended ( McCormick)

Directions
Preheat oven to 400 degrees F.
Place potatoes and rosemary in a microwaveable dish.
Cover with a damp paper towel and microwave for 2 minutes, until almost cooked through.
Cover the bottom of the pre-made pie shell with potatoes, ham, and cheese.
Place on a cookie sheet and set aside.
In a medium bowl, whisk together eggs, milk, and seasoning and pour into the pie shell.
Place quiche into preheated oven for 35 to 40 minutes or until eggs have set.

Source: Recipe Zaar
http://www.recipezaar.com/289606

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Egg 2 Recipe #3 - Zesty Crab Cups

Ingredients
24 wonton wrappers
1/2 lb crabmeat
2 scallions , sliced thinly
2 radishes , chopped
2 tablespoons chopped parsley
3 tablespoons olive oil
1 lime, zest of
1 lime, juice of
2 teaspoons hot sauce

Directions
Heat oven to 350.
Press wonton wrappers into mimi muffin tins that have been coated with cooking spray.
Bake 10 minutes or until a golden color.
Remove from pan and cool.

In a bowl combine the next 4 ingredients.
In a separate bowl whisk the oil 2 tbsp lime juice 1 tsp of the zest and pepper sauce.
Add salt if desired.
Stir oil mixture into crab mixture and divide into the wonton cups.

Source: Recipe Zaar
http://www.recipezaar.com/289708
© 2007 Recipezaar. All Rights Reserved. http://www.recipezaar.com/

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Visit My Mail Stamp! PARTY OF THE MONTH

St. Patrick's Day - March 17th

Are you in the spirit to spread a little Irish cheer? Here are some tips to
throwing an Irish-themed party and going GREEN. You can do this with decorations that are as cheap or expensive as you like: Green streamers set the mood if you're on a budget; if you have more green to spend, go all out with green light bulbs in your lamps, green helium balloons and shamrock-shaped party lights.

Gold-foil-wrapped chocolate coins and Lucky Charms cereal make for festive table decorations - as well as great snacks. Fill bowls or vases with them to dress up your party.

Also, find a big rock (or make one out of Styrofoam or papier-mâché) to be your Blarney Stone. Position it near the door so people can kiss it when they enter. Since legend has it that kissing the actual stone is supposed to give the kisser the gift of eloquence and persuasiveness, you're bound to have more interesting party chatter if guests pucker up as they arrive.

Again, green is the way to go with your St. Patrick's Day gear. Lads and lassies alike can get into the spirit of St. Patrick's by breaking out all the green clothing they can, pinning on a "Kiss Me, I’m Irish" button and topping it all off with a green leprechaun's hat.

To really cheese it up, use the Lucky Charms leprechaun as your guide. He sports a green blazer, a green scarf and a green bowler hat with a shamrock sticking out of it.

For the over-21 crowd, drinking is the most popular way to celebrate St. Patrick's Day. Pub crawls to local Irish haunts give you a drinking break and some fresh air between drinks.

Put on a CD of traditional Irish songs and print out the lyrics for your guests so they can croon along to classics like "Danny Boy."

Hand out paper and pens and give your guests five minutes to write a limerick, then read them aloud in your best Irish accents.

If you're the adventurous type, send your guests on a treasure hunt for a leprechaun’s pot of gold. Before guests arrive, hide your treasure (gold-foil-wrapped chocolate coins in a small basket or glass makes a handy pot of gold), then have guests search for it throughout the party.
Get out your green food coloring; you'll need it to dye everything from mashed potatoes to beer. In addition to green-colored treats, serve traditional Irish favorites like corned beef and cabbage and Irish soda bread.

For sweet snacks, put out bowls of green M&Ms and green jelly beans. Or make shamrock cookies using a clover-shaped cookie cutter. And don't forget, Irish whiskey and dark Irish beer make excellent dessert ingredients.

Provided courtesy of http://www.evite.com/
http://www.evite.com/app/cms/ideas/st-patricks-day?_2

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Pot Of Gold St. Patrick's Day Party - Drink Recipes

Irish Manhattan (serves 1)

1/4 cup Irish whiskey
1 1/2 tablespoons sweet vermouth
1 maraschino cherry, for garnish

Fill a lowball glass with ice. Add whiskey and sweet vermouth; stir. Garnish with maraschino cherry.

Serve it on the rocks to better balance the Irish whiskey's peaty note. If you prefer it a bit drier, make the vermouth portion half sweet and half dry.

Irish Coffee (serves 1)

1 1/2 oz. Irish whiskey
1 teaspoon brown sugar
6 oz. hot coffee
(to taste) heavy cream

In a mug, combine whiskey, sugar and coffee. Stir to dissolve. Top with heavy cream to taste.

Non-Alcoholic Drinks
Mint-chocolate milkshakes, Gatorade, green Kool-Aid

Courtesy of Epicurious.com
www.Epicurious.com
http://www.epicurious.com/recipesmenus/holidays/stpatricks/recipes

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Meditate FYI:

From Marsha Yeager:

To all SOS Support Group members: We need to know who will be a 5-year survivor this year, 2008. Survivorship is marked from the date that you are diagnosed going forward. Even if your month/day anniversary occurs in the summer, we want to know about it now so we can honor our survivors at our last meeting, which is May. Please call ( 281 431 0700) or email (marshayeager@yahoo.com ) if you will be an honoree. Blessings, Marsha

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Cell phone numbers are now public!

REMINDER....all cell phone numbers have been released to telemarketing companies and you will start to receive sale calls. YOU WILL BE CHARGED FOR THESE CALLS!

To prevent this, call the following number from your cell phone:
888-382-1222.

It is the National DO NOT CALL list. It will only take a minute of your time
It blocks your number for five (5) years. You must call from the cell phone number you want to have blocked. You cannot call from a different phone number.

HELP OTHERS BY PASSING THIS ON TO ALL YOUR FRIENDS.
It take about 20 seconds.

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Visit My Mail Stamp! AROUND & ABOUT HOUSTON
Mark Your Calendars!

PINK RIBBONS PROJECT
Tickle Me Pink Fashion Show
featuring Houston-area Student Designers
March 8th, 2008, 4:00 p.m.
Lamar High School
3325 Westheimer Drive
$10 tickets sold at door

KNOCKOUT ROSES
A support group for women diagnosed under 40.
2nd Monday of each month, at 5:45 pm, March 10th, 2008.
The Rose, 3400 Bissonnet.
Contact Amy Rigsby, Technical Director of The Rose, 713-660-6675.

M. D. ANDERSON CANCER CENTER
Hereditary Breast and Ovarian Cancer Conference
Conference activities will include genetics of hereditary cancer, risk management, panel discussions with patients, survivors and caregivers, research directions and clinical trials.
Saturday, March 15, 2008
8am - 1 pm
Registration now open. www.mdanderson.org/departments/ccg
For info: call 713-745-7391 or e-mail ccg@mdanderson.org

THE ALICE THOMSEN LYMPHEDEMA AWARENESS GROUP of Houston Meetings are scheduled on the 3rd Tuesday of every other month at the American cancer Society Building, 6301 Richmond (between Hillcroft and Fountainview). Please join us on March 18, 2008 at 7 pm. Hope to see you then, Cynthia Gdula.

Y-ME NATIONAL BREAST CANCER
Houston Team Captain Training Luncheon
DoubleTree Hotel Houston Downtown
All team captains and co-captains are invited to attend the Houston Walk Team Captain Training Luncheon on March 19, 2008. This event promises to be a lot of fun, bringing together representatives from corporate, family, and club teams!

The luncheon is an opportunity for your team to learn fun ways to fundraise as well as meet others who will be there on Mother's Day morning By attending you will be one of the first to receive our brand-new 2008 promotional posters and brochures which will help you get started on the right foot!

DoubleTree Hotel Houston Downtown
400 Dallas Street
Houston, TX 77002
12:00 p.m. - 2:00 p.m.
Date: Wednesday, March 19, 2008
Time: 12:00 PM - 2:00 PM
http://main.y-me.org/site/Calendar/2108956386? view=Detail&id=5161&JServSessionIdr004=avtc2m4ov4.app14a

VICTORIA'S PLACE
Seed Meditation with Victoria Silva
Saturday, March 22nd
7:00 PM
Cost: $10
http://www.feminineliving.com for the details and RSVP. See you there!

M. D. ANDERSON CANCER CENTER
Fatigue Awareness Week - April 7 -10, 2008
Monday April 7th, 10am - 1pm - Clinic Open House
Mays Clinic, Sixth Floor
Tuesday, April 8th, - Cancer-related Fatigue Video Viewing
6:30 - 7:30pm
Cancer Prevention Building, Eight Floor, Rooms 1 & 2
RSVP: 713-792-2808 or e-mail bsmp@mdanderson.org
For more information, call the Patient Education Office at 713-794-5379
or e-mail www.mdanderson.org/departments/patedu

SOS SURVIVOR MEETING
Held the second Tuesday of each month for those living in Fort Bend County.
April 8, 2008, 7:00 - 9:00 pm
Holy Cross Episcopal Church
For additional info and directions: http://sosporchlight.blogspot.com/

AVON WALK FOR BREAST CANCER
Houston - April 12 - 13, 2008
Congratulations on deciding to register for the Avon Walk for Breast Cancer! By registering online now, you will have immediate access to all of the tools of your 'My Avon Walk Center' and can begin fundraising towards your goal today. https://secure2.convio.net/avon/site/TRR/Walk2008/Houston/1021196898?pg=ptype&fr_id=1420&JServSessionIdr004=x9jrwe2701.app26b or For more information, please call us at (713) 968-9250. Email: volunteer.houston@avonwalk.org

AMERICAN CANCER SOCIETY
Relay for Life, 2008
April 18, 2008 6:00 PM - April 19, 2008 6:00 AM
Location: Rice University Track Field, 6100 Main, Houston, TX 77005
Contact: Shelton Moore,Rosalyn, (713)706-5634 x296
Email: Rosalyn.SheltonMoore@cancer.org
No registration fee. Each person is asked to raise $100.00
Agenda: Survivor Ceremony, Luminaria Ceremony, Entertainment, Food and Games. For more information: http://www.relayforlife.org/relay/coe?EID=62080

NATIONAL BREAST CANCER COALITION (NBCC):
2008 Annual Advocacy Training Conference
Renaissance Washington, DC Hotel
999 9th Street, NW
Washington, DC 20001
April 26th - 29th 2008

Register now to attend NBCCF's 16th Annual Advocacy Training Conference. Join hundreds of national and international breast cancer activists in our fight to eradicate breast cancer.

NBCCF's yearly gathering helps participants hone their advocacy skills and learn about the latest in breast cancer science, research and policy. Hear directly about the controversies and issues from important leaders, scientists, and advocates. To learn more about this event and registration, visit: http://www.stopbreastcancer.org//index.php?option=com_content&task=view&id=598&Itemid=1

SUSAN'S RALLY in the Fight Against Breast Cancer
The Susan Roberson Wade Memorial Car Rally
Save the Dates: Rally - April 27, 2008
Golf Tournament - October 27, 2008
For more information: http://www.susansrally.org/

HOPE STONE, INC.
Save The Date for our Premiere Piece
PEACE PIECE ...May 1st, 2008
a dance, theater and music performed by
the Kid's Play Ensemble and YouthSound
7:00 pm
Kaplan Theater, JCC
tickets on sale now
http://www.hopestoneinc.org/
713.526.1907 ext. 3

CURE MAGAZINE
Registration is open for the 2008 CURE Day of Caring Breast Cancer Forum on May 3 & 4in Denver. The Day of Caring weekend features breast cancer experts from around the country, as well as educational exhibits, and a Survivor’s Fashion Show.
Full agendas, hotel accommodations, and online registration are available now! We look forward to seeing you there! http://www.curetoday.com/forums/index.html

Y-ME NATIONAL BREAST CANCER ORGANIZATION
Houston Walk to Empower, Non-Competitive 3-mile Walk
Mother's Day, Sunday, May 13, 2007
Check-In Begins: 7:30 a.m. Walk Begins: 9:00 a.m.
Sam Houston Park, Houston, Texas

During the past 15 years, Y-ME’s Mother’s Day Events have raised more than $26 million to help ensure that no one faces breast cancer alone. In 2006, $6 million was raised. Please join us this year -- you’ll be proud to know that your support will help Y-ME continue providing its essential programs and services to people and their loved ones touched by breast cancer.
For more details: http://houstonwalk.y-me.org/site/PageServer? pagename=MDE_HTX_homepage

M.D. ANDERSON NETWORK 20th ANNUAL
LIVING FULLY WITH and BEYOND CANCER CONFERENCE
This annual event for patients/survivors and caregivers celebrates its 20th anniversary with the theme,
“Live, Reach, Celebrate,”
September 4 - 6, 2008
Houston Marriott Westchase
Details TBA

PINK RIBBONS PROJECT
Tour de Pink 2008
Sunday, September 7, 2008
Tour de Pink is the annual fundraising bike ride sponsored by Pink Ribbons Project to raise funds for breast cancer education and awareness.
Details, TBA

"UNBEATABLE"
Stages Repertory Theatre
Coming September, 2008
The new musical Unbeatable is coming to town in September 2008 in a World Premiere production produced by Houston’s acclaimed Stages Repertory Theatre. This brilliant new musical follows the true story of a strong-willed woman and her life-changing confrontation with Breast Cancer. http://www.unbeatablemusical.com/ Details TBA
To make a donation, contact Emma Jacobs at emma@jacobswoerner.com

SUSAN G. KOMEN RACE FOR THE CURE
Houston, Saturday October 4th, 2008
Save the Date! Details TBA

CURE MAGAZINE
Coming later this fall, the 5th Annual CURE Patient & Survivor Forum will take place November 1 & 2 in Dallas. CURE is proud to offer a Young Adult Track at this meeting in addition to CNE credit for nurses. For More information visit:
http://www.curetoday.com/forums/index.html

For weekly updates and additional events, please refer to: http://pinkcrusader.blogspot.com/

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Directions to Holy Cross Episcopal Church: From the corner intersection of Hwy 6 and Hwy 59: Continue South on Hwy 59. Exit at Grand Parkway-Texas 99. You will go by an H.E.B. grocery store on the right as you turn right at a traffic light to get on the Grand Parkway. Proceed to the next traffic light (River Park Drive). Turn left. You will be facing the church. Go through the next intersection (traffic light at Texas 99) and park in the church parking lot. The address is 5653 West River Park Drive. If coming from New Territory: Go to the intersection of New Territory Blvd. and Texas 99. Turn South on to Texas 99. River Park Drive is one intersection (traffic light) past New Territory Blvd. Turn right at that intersection. If coming from 90A: Turn at intersection of 90A and Texas 99 (Grand Parkway). Go South on Grand Parkway, passing Sand Hill Blvd. and New Territory Blvd. Next intersection is River Park Drive. Turn right. Church is right there.

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This concludes this month's issue of the SOS Porch Light. We encourage you to share your thoughts, suggestions, photographs and topics of interest with all members for future editions of the newsletter. Comments may be posted directly to the blog or by email to JosieSethi@aol.com
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THOUGHT OF THE MONTH:

Shamrock 2 "May your blessings outnumber the shamrocks that grow, and may trouble avoid you wherever you go."

- Irish Blessing


Until we meet again.....remember to take care, stay well, and never give up the fight.

BIG HUG!
Miss U
Josie Sethi
Editor & Survivor
JosieSethi@aol.com

February 9, 2008

XOXOXO

HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY!
Visit My Mail Stamp!
Welcome to the February 2008 edition of the SOS Porch Light newsletter!

No matter what language you speak, expressions of amore or the language of "love" is universal and understood by all. During the month of February, we focus our attention on a variety of relationships. We affirm friendships and celebrate love by exchanging poetic cards as well as traditional gifts of roses, jewelry, and chocolates by the pound.

While most people associate Valentine's Day exclusively as a "lovers' holiday," the truth is that this a day which is "not well understood." The true origins and traditions of this holiday are somewhat "mysterious" as stated in the following article:

DID YOU KNOW:
Valentine's Day Traditions Continue Despite Mysterious Origins
by Catherine Raposa
Features Editor

Each February 14th, Americans expose their romantic sides in order to capture the interest and heart of a loved one. Every year, American greeting card companies create more than $277 million worth of Valentines. There were 25,617 florists nationwide to help both men and women select the right flowers to send to loved ones this year. And lastly, the U.S. Census Bureau reports that in 1998, there were 114 unmarried men to every 100 unmarried women in the 18 to 44 age categories. These statistics may not prove to what extent lovers seek to please their mate, but nevertheless there is little question that Valentine's Day is steeped in centuries of tradition and culture that persist to this very day.

The true nature and past of Valentine's Day is mysterious and not well understood. Many details of the history's origin are missing. Incomplete history makes both the date and Saint Valentine's life a puzzle.

Two spring Roman holidays might have marked the original selection of February 14. On February 14, Romans celebrated a festival in the name of Juno, the Roman goddess of women and marriage that focused on young women and motherhood. On February 15, a Roman holiday named Lupercalia or Februarca celebrated Lycaeus, mother of Romulus and Remus, founders of Rome. Sacrifices of wolves were thought to improve the fertility of village women for the upcoming year and wolf fur was worn to improve the chances of pregnancy. Young Roman men would randomly select the names of local women from jars and escort them to the festivity's dances and dinners. It was believed that if the escort was successful then the young woman would make an excellent and fertile wife. This random love-match may have lead to the custom of 'selecting' a Valentine for the holiday.

Saint Valentine himself is an unknown and confusing figure, even to Catholic Church scholars. Three separate martyrs are recognized with the name Valentine or Valentinus. Legends centering on these figures contain a common theme of defiance for the sake of love.

The first legend states the Saint continued to perform marriages despite a Roman Emperor's ruling that men remain single. The Emperor was concerned with the dwindling military enlistment and determined that limiting family life and ultimately marriage would encourage men to join the infantry and train as better soldiers. Valentine continued to perform Christian marriages despite the strict rules on matrimony, and was ultimately imprisoned. Emperor Claudius II had him put to death on February 14 in 269 A.D. Allegedly, Pope Gelasius declared February 14 as a special holiday for Saint Valentine in 469 A.D.

The second legend states that Valentine died while helping save faithful Christians from Roman prisons. In the era when Christians were persecuted for their religious beliefs, Valentine would arrange escapes from Roman prisons to prevent the faithful from being tortured or beaten.

Perhaps the most popular legend centers on an imprisoned priest during the Dark Ages. Local children missed him during his imprisonment and would throw flowers into his cell through the prison bars. He fell in love with the Jailer's daughter, who visited often during his confinement. Some sources state that she returned his love because he had cured her blindness. He would send her love letters frequently as a means of communicating his love. Right before he died, he wrote her a love letter signing it, "From Your Valentine".

These tales have persisted over hundreds of years. Saint Valentine was a popular character in Middle Age stories, especially in the countries of France and England. Valentine's Day is one of several holidays that was allegedly integrated into the Christian calendar in order to encourage pagans to convert to Catholicism. By keeping the Roman date but by changing its religious significance the romantic qualities of the holiday were preserved while dismissing the sacrifice rituals.

Although the story behind Saint Valentine is unclear, many of the symbols of Valentine's Day are better understood as universal signs of love. Symbols of Valentine's Day include doves, hearts, roses, and Cupid.

Doves are magical messengers that bring good luck and fortune. Hearts have traditionally been thought to contain the soul and the emotional center of the human body. They represent love, passion, and desire. Roses are one of the most popular gifts for Valentine's Day but the significance of the flower's color denotes how serious the gift is. Red roses represent love and passion, white true love, yellow indicates friendship, and black means farewell.

Lastly, Cupid, son of Venus or Aphrodite in ancient mythology, would play matchmaker to Roman and Greek mortals. His angelic and innocent physique transcends pagan myths and he continues to shoot lovers with his arrows, especially on this special day of the year.

Source: Tech News of Worcester Polytechnic Institute 2/14/2001
A Publication of the Newspeak Association, Volume 66, Issue 5 http://www.wpi.edu/News/TechNews/010214/valentine.shtml

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Beating Heart SPECIAL NOTICE:

The SOS Support Group will hold its February meeting at La Madeleine Cafe & Bistro in Sugar Land on Tuesday, February 12th, from 6:30 - 8:00 pm. In honor of Valentine's Day, each member is asked to bring one signed Valentine Card which will be randomly distributed that same evening. Please RSVP with Marsha Yaeger at marshayeager@yahoo.com .

Also, a reminder that there will be no meeting in March due to Spring Break, however the group will reconvene again in April at Holy Cross Episcopal Church as usual. (Directions below)

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Bouncing Hearts MONTHLY CONTRIBUTION:

In honor of "heart month," the following article debates the use of cholesterol-lowering drugs and was recently featured in the Houston Chronicle.

Jan. 27, 2008, 1:43PM
PEOPLE'S PHARMACY
By BY JOE GRAEDON AND TERESA GRAEDON, PH.D.
King Features Syndicate

It all seemed so simple. If you just lowered your cholesterol, you could reduce your risk of a heart attack or stroke.

Drug companies have done their best to keep you focused on medications that bring cholesterol levels down. Turn on TV or open a magazine and you are likely to see an ad featuring Dr. Robert Jarvik, known as the inventor of the artificial heart. He promotes Lipitor to lower cholesterol, and he has been wildly successful.

The company brags that its statin-type medication has been prescribed to more than 26million Americans. Lipitor earned its manufacturer more than $13 billion in 2006.

Lipitor is not alone. Millions of Americans take cholesterol-lowering drugs like Crestor, Mevacor, Pravachol, Vytorin, Zocor and Zetia. But puzzling new data have many patients confused.

Headlines recently announced the results of a study comparing Vytorin, which contains both Zetia (ezetimibe) and Zocor (simvastatin), to Zocor alone. Although Vytorin lowered bad LDL cholesterol 17 percent more than Zocor, the combination pill did not reduce dangerous plaque buildup in neck arteries. The patients on Vytorin may even have had slightly more plaque buildup.

Cleveland Clinic cardiologist Steven Nissen was stunned by the results and called on his colleagues to reconsider routine use of Zetia or Vytorin as first-line treatments. In 2006, 18 million prescriptions were written for Vytorin and 14 million for Zetia.

Lowering cholesterol, especially bad LDL cholesterol, is supposed to be the Holy Grail for preventing atherosclerosis and cardiovascular events. But an earlier study of a novel medication called torcetrapib that lowers LDL and raises good HDL cholesterol was abandoned when patients taking the medicine actually had more heart attacks and strokes. The new study of Vytorin suggests that reducing LDL numbers may not be enough.

Even for tried-and-true cholesterol-lowering drugs, the benefit for any given individual may be smaller than people imagine. Lipitor, for example, has been shown in studies to prevent heart attacks.

Media ads capitalize on this, announcing that Lipitor reduces the risk of heart attack by 36 percent. There is an asterisk next to that number, however, and here is the fine print: "That means in a large clinical study, 3 percent of patients taking a sugar pill or placebo had a heart attack compared to 2 percent of patients taking Lipitor." (See Business Week, Jan. 17, 2008.)

In other words, if you had 100 people taking Lipitor and another 100 people taking an inactive placebo, there would be one less heart attack after several years among the folks on Lipitor. That certainly matters a great deal if you are the one who was spared. But if you are one of the other 99, the cost and risk of side effects may seem high.

No one should stop taking cholesterol-lowering medicine without medical supervision, but cholesterol is not the only thing that matters. Physicians have known for decades that there are more than 200 risk factors for heart disease (New England Journal of Medicine, Nov. 14, 2002). Inflammation, stress, hostility, depression and high triglycerides are just a few of the other contributors to heart disease. Focusing on cholesterol alone could be a big mistake.

Source: Houston Chronicle, http://www.chron.com/
http://www.chron.com/disp/story.mpl/life/dailycols/5489595.html

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Lips SOS SURVIVOR UPDATE

From Lori Kwiatkowski:

Congratulations to Lori who is featured in an article about acupuncture treatments for pain management (at M. D. Anderson Cancer Center) in this month's issue of AARP Magazine
(Jack Nicholson is on the cover).

From Rosemary Herron:

Rosemary Herron has the new 2008-2009 Pink Phurree Dragon Boat Calendar in case anyone is interested in purchasing one. The cost is $25 for the two-year calendar. Rosemary Herron and Rosemary Barr are both featured in the calendar together! How cute!

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I Love You Mug FROM THE KITCHEN: Love Bites

Looking for breakfast ideas for Valentine's Day? Think "berries for breakfast" and leave the "chocolate for dessert!"

Recipe #1 - Cranberry Coffee Cake
Active time: 15 min Start to finish: 1 3/4 hr
Servings: Makes 6 to 8 servings.

Ingredients:
2 cups fresh or thawed frozen cranberries (8 oz)
1 3/4 cups granulated sugar
2 cups all-purpose flour
2 teaspoons baking powder
3/4 teaspoon salt
1 stick (1/2 cup) unsalted butter, softened
2 large eggs
1 teaspoon vanilla
1/2 cup whole milk

Garnish: confectioners sugar
Special equipment: a 9- by 5- by 3-inch loaf pan

Preparation:
Preheat oven to 350°F.

Pulse cranberries with 1/2 cup granulated sugar in a food processor until finely chopped (do not purée). Transfer to a sieve and let drain while making batter.

Sift together flour, baking powder, and salt. Beat together butter and remaining 1 1/4 cups granulated sugar in a large bowl with an electric mixer at medium-high speed until light and fluffy, about 5 minutes with a standing mixer or about 8 minutes with a handheld. Add eggs 1 at a time, beating well after each addition, then beat in vanilla. Reduce speed to low and add flour mixture and milk alternately in batches, beginning and ending with flour and mixing until just incorporated.

Spread one third of batter evenly in well-buttered loaf pan, then spoon half of drained cranberries evenly over batter, leaving a 1/2-inch border along sides. Top with another third of batter and remaining cranberries, leaving a 1/2-inch border along sides, then cover with remaining batter. Bake in middle of oven until golden brown and a tester inserted in center comes out without crumbs, 1 to 1 1/4 hours. Cool cake in pan on a rack 30 minutes.

Invert cake onto rack. Serve warm or at room temperature.

Cooks' note: Coffeecake can be made 1 day ahead. Cool completely, then store in a cake keeper or wrapped in foil at room temperature. If desired, warm in a 350°F oven 15 minutes before serving.

Source: http://www.epicurious.com/
http://www.epicurious.com/articlesguides/holidays/valentinesday/valentinesday/recipes/food/views/107775

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Recipe #2 - Raspberry Chocolate-chip Pancakes

Can be prepared in 45 minutes or less.
Servings: Makes 10 pancakes

Ingredients:
1/2 stick (1/4 cup) unsalted butter
3/4 cup plus 3 tablespoons milk
1 large egg
1 cup all-purpose flour
2 teaspoons baking powder
1/4 teaspoon salt
1 cup picked-over raspberries
1/2 cup semisweet chocolate chips

Accompaniment: pure maple syrup, heated

Preparation:
In a small saucepan melt 2 tablespoons butter over moderately low heat, stirring. Stir in milk and heat until just warm. Remove pan from heat. In a bowl whisk together milk mixture and egg. Into another bowl sift together flour, baking powder, and salt and stir in egg mixture until just combined. Gently stir in raspberries and chocolate chips.

Preheat oven to 200° F.

Heat a griddle over moderate heat until hot enough to make a drop of water scatter over surface. Add 1 teaspoon butter and with a metal spatula spread over griddle. Working in batches, drop 1/4-cup measures of batter onto griddle to form pancakes about 4 inches in diameter and cook until bubbles appear on surface and undersides are golden brown, about 2 minutes. Flip pancakes with spatula and cook until undersides are golden brown and pancakes are cooked through. Transfer pancakes as cooked to an ovenproof platter and keep warm, uncovered, in oven. Make more pancakes with remaining butter and batter in same manner.

Serve pancakes with syrup.

http://www.epicurious.com/articlesguides/howtocook/seasonal/cooknow_chocolate/recipes/food/views/14163

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Recipe #3 - Valentine Smoothie

2 servings
10 min preparation time

Ingredients:
1 cup vanilla yogurt
1 ripe banana, peeled, frozen, and sliced
2 tablespoons strawberry jam
1 tablespoon honey
3-4 drops red food coloring

Preparation:
In a blender container, add yogurt, banana, jam, honey, and food coloring.
Cover and blend on high until smooth and foamy.
Pour into glasses and serve immediately.

http://www.recipezaar.com/51688
Source: Recipe Zaar
© 2007 Recipezaar. All Rights Reserved. http://www.recipezaar.com/

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I Love You Flowers PARTY OF THE MONTH - Focus on Friendship

This Valentine's Day gather all your girlfriends together for a casual mixer, and spark up some fun! Here are tips for making your party love-ly:

Idea # 1 - Fill champagne flutes and martini glasses with classic Valentine's Day candies like conversation hearts and Red Hots®, and place them on tabletops to spice up your décor.

Idea #2 - Chocolate Tasting -- it's a great way to get people talking. Put out bowls of fancy chocolates in different varieties, and watch the magic happen.

Idea #3 - "Can't Get Enough" - Have each person at the party write down 5 things that they can't get enough of (or a list of favorite things), and make sure that they don't put their names on the lists. Gather the lists and read them to the group one by one. Everyone has to try and guess which list belongs to which person.

For more party ideas , visit: http://www.evite.com/app/cms/ideas/valentines-day?src=textletter_20080122_1

Provided courtesy of http://www.evite.com/

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Flowers & Vase FYI:

From the Texas Department of Transportation:

Over the last 30 years, designs for the state's general issue plate have ranged from a plain, white background to the flying Lone Star Flag. In January of 2009, production of the next plate will begin. Texans will have the opportunity to vote for one of four new designs or to keep the current plate.

Let your voice be heard. This is really important! So exercise your right to vote.
Voting begins at noon on Monday, Feb. 4 and ends at noon on Monday, Feb. 11.

http://apps.dot.state.tx.us/services/vehicle_titles_and_registration/vote_received.htm

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From National Breast Cancer Coalition (NBCC):

Save the Date

2008 Annual Advocacy Training Conference
Renaissance Washington, DC Hotel
999 9th Street, NW
Washington, DC 20001
April 26th - 29th 2008


Register now to attend NBCCF's 16th Annual Advocacy Training Conference. Join hundreds of national and international breast cancer activists in our fight to eradicate breast cancer.

NBCCF's yearly gathering helps participants hone their advocacy skills and learn about the latest in breast cancer science, research and policy. Hear directly about the controversies and issues from important leaders, scientists, and advocates.

To learn more about this event and registration, visit: http://www.stopbreastcancer.org//index.php?option=com_content&task=view&id=598&Itemid=1

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From Y-Me National Breast Cancer Organization:

Y-ME Advocacy reminds you that the United States Presidential primary elections are right around the corner. Have you registered to vote yet? If not, register now!

https://ssl.capwiz.com/y-me/e4/nvra/

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From Susan G. Komen for the Cure:

Tell the candidates: I Vote for the Cure!

Our I Vote for the Cure (TM) campaign calls on the candidates to address how they would increase funding for breast cancer research and improve access to screening and treatment for all Americans. These simple, common-sense ideas unite the American public:

6 in 10 voters are willing to raise taxes to ensure all women have access to quality breast cancer screening and treatment. 70 percent of voters said income level impacts quality of care and half think ethnicity affects quality of care – a view supported by Komen's research.
Half of voters feel candidates are not spending enough time on healthcare issues, a top priority for both men and women surveyed. And only 12 percent are aware of their preferred presidential candidate's position on issues relating to breast cancer! With so many voters agreeing with us already, the wind is at our back, and momentum is on our side. Now we need your help to reach 100,000 signatures!

Help us make breast cancer a top issue in the '08 elections – sign the petition TODAY.

http://komenpolicy.org/campaign/ivftc/8kgxk8n4r7ttwx3m?

Our I Vote for the Cure (TM) campaign is one of the most ambitious we've ever launched. In just a few short weeks, 31,944 people have signed the petition! But it doesn't stop there – from our voter survey, to on-the-ground presence at the debates, we are leading the charge for better breast cancer access and care in 2008.

Thank you for all your efforts. We couldn't do any of it without you!

Sincerely,

Diane Balma
Susan G. Komen for the Cure Advocacy Alliance

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From Rosemary Herron:

I will be bringing the 2008-2009 Pink Phurree Dragon Boat Calendar to SOS on Tuesday evening, in case anyone is interested in purchasing one. They are $25. Rosemary Barr and I are in it - together. Thank you for your support.

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From Brenda K. Hoffman:
Next breast cancer workshop - Bayshore Medical - 2-23-08

If anyone is interested in paddling with the Pink Phurree's Dragon Boat Racing Team... this would be a good time to get started with the Trainer!!!
I'm working and can't make this particular appointment... but encourage you all to. This has been so much fun for me!! So motivating and so encouraging... I'd love to have you all paddling in the boat along side me!! We have a boat for Survivors and Friends, as well...
Love & Hugs!! B. Kaye
b.kaye@earthlink.net

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From AztraZeneca:
The Celebration Chain—Better Than Ever!

Not long ago, AztraZeneca announced the launch of the Celebration Chain Web site. The Celebration Chain is a way to honor special women in our lives who have been touched by breast cancer and to celebrate their unique, endearing qualities. It’s easy and fun and, not surprisingly, has gained tremendous popularity. To date, more than 5,000 people have created more than 7,000 celebrations for women in their lives who have faced or are facing breast cancer.

How does it work? You design a personalized, animated doll that represents your loved one’s unique attributes. She will receive an e-mail telling her how to view her celebration doll. You’ll also receive a confirmation e-mail. You can invite friends and family members to participate. As her Celebration Chain grows, check back often to see what’s been added.

To get started go to: http://www.arimidex.com/celebration/

For every new doll created, AstraZeneca will donate $1 (up to a total of $25,000) to a breast cancer charity.

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Visit My Mail Stamp! AROUND & ABOUT HOUSTON
Mark Your Calendars!

SOS SURVIVOR GROUP MEETING
Tuesday, February 12, 6:30 - 8:00 pm
La Madeleine, Sugar Land
Please RSVP with Marsha Yeager at marshayeager@yahoo.com
Note: We will NOT be meeting in March due to Spring Break.

FACES BEHIND BREAST CANCER BOOK EVENT
Thursday, Feb 14th, 11:00am - 3:30 pm
Appearances Breast Care Boutique
M. D. Anderson Cancer Center, Mays Clinic
2nd Floor
Houston, TX

FACES BEHIND BREAST CANCER BOOK EVENT
Save the Date! Valentine's Day Tea Party
Hosted by KnockOut Roses
Sunday, February 17th, 2:00 - 4:00 pm
Randall's Community Resource Center
The Rose Medical Plaza
12700 North Featherwood
Houston, TX 77034
BYOTC (Bring Your Own Tea Cup)
RSVP with Amy Rigsby at 713-254-1399
arigsby@the-rose.org , by Thursday, Feb. 14th

M. D. ANDERSON CANCER CENTER LECTURE SERIES
Drowning in Calories: What It Will Take to Turn the Tide
Featuring David L. Katz, M.D., M.P.H,
a syndicated nutrition columnist for The New York Times and O, The Oprah Magazine
Reserve your seat today!
Wednesday, Feb. 20, 2008
5:30 p.m. Check In
6:00 p.m. Program
M. D. Anderson Cancer Center
South Campus Research Building
7435 Fannin Street at Old Spanish Trail Houston, TX 77054
Free admission and parking
Registration deadline: Feb. 18
To register, e-mail publiced@mdanderson.org
or call 713-745-0549.

Y-ME SHARE RING NETWORK
Wednesday, February 20th
7 - 8pm - Central Time
Topic: "Fertility after Breast Cancer"
Speaker: Karine Chung, M.D, M.S.C.E.
Assistant Professor of Obstetrics and Gynecology
Division Reproductive Endocrinology and Infertility
University of Southern California, Keck School of Medicine
Free presentation followed by a discussion. Sign up now at
http://main.y-me.org/site/Survey? SURVEY_ID=7140&ACTION_REQUIRED=URI_ACTION_USER_REQUESTS&autologin=true&s_src=feb_08&JServSessionIdr004=gs2tmh3c32.app14a. The February call is presented in partnership with the Young Survival Coalition and Fertile Hope.

VICTORIA'S PLACE
Essential Oil-Making Class
Saturday, February 23RD
2:00 TO 4:00 PM
$28 includes supplies, refreshments and
TWO 1oz. take home bottles of your own blend
Anyone who loves using essential oils... needs to take this class... so you
can make your OWN high quality blends, instead of paying those HIGH PRICES at the store...this is a hands on and super fun class! Go to
http://www.feminineliving.com/ for the details. See you there!

M. D. ANDERSON SPRING WORKSHOP
Innovations in Breast Cancer and the Art of Cancer Survivorship
Saturday, March 1, 2008
8:30 a.m. to 1:00 p.m.
M. D. Anderson Cancer Center
Cancer Prevention Building, 8th floor
1155 Pressler
Houston, Texas

Keynote Speakers
Melissa Crosby, M.D. - Developments in Reconstructive Surgery
P.K. Morrow, M.D. - Future Directions in Breast Cancer Treatment: Updates from the San Antonio Breast Cancer Symposium
Multidisciplinary Panel Discussion
COLLAGE: Art of Survivorship

http://www.mdanderson.org/departments/yngbreastsrv/dIndex.cfm?pn=C6D164AE-19F1-4DD3-B99D0566A30B813F or You can RSVP at bsmp@mdanderson.org

THE ALICE THOMSEN LYMPHEDEMA AWARENESS GROUP of Houston Meetings are scheduled on the 3rd Tuesday of every other month at the American cancer Society Building, 6301 Richmond (between Hillcroft and Fountainview). Please join us on March 18, 2008 at 7 pm. Hope to see you then, Cynthia Gdula.

M. D. ANDERSON CANCER CENTER
Fatigue Awareness Week - April 7 -10, 2008
Monday April 7th, 10am - 1pm - Clinic Open House
Mays Clinic, Sixth Floor
Tuesday, April 8th, - Cancer-related Fatigue Video Viewing
6:30 - 7:30pm
Cancer Prevention Building, Eight Floor, Rooms 1 & 2
RSVP: 713-792-2808 or e-mail bsmp@mdanderson.org
For more information, call the Patient Education Office at 713-794-5379
or e-mail www.mdanderson.org/departments/patedu

SOS SURVIVOR MEETING
Held the second Tuesday of each month for those living in Fort Bend County.
April 8, 2008, 7:00 - 9:00 pm
Holy Cross Episcopal Church
For additional info and directions: http://sosporchlight.blogspot.com/

AVON WALK FOR BREAST CANCER
Houston - April 12 - 13, 2008
Congratulations on deciding to register for the Avon Walk for Breast Cancer! By registering online now, you will have immediate access to all of the tools of your 'My Avon Walk Center' and can begin fundraising towards your goal today. https://secure2.convio.net/avon/site/TRR/Walk2008/Houston/1021196898?pg=ptype&fr_id=1420&JServSessionIdr004=x9jrwe2701.app26b or For more information, please call us at (713) 968-9250. Email: volunteer.houston@avonwalk.org

AMERICAN CANCER SOCIETY
Relay for Life, 2008
April 18, 2008 6:00 PM - April 19, 2008 6:00 AM
Location: Rice University Track Field, 6100 Main, Houston, TX 77005
Contact: Shelton Moore,Rosalyn, (713)706-5634 x296
Email: Rosalyn.SheltonMoore@cancer.org
No registration fee. Each person is asked to raise $100.00
Agenda: Survivor Ceremony, Luminaria Ceremony, Entertainment, Food and Games. For more information: http://www.relayforlife.org/relay/coe?EID=62080

NATIONAL BREAST CANCER COALITION (NBCC):
2008 Annual Advocacy Training Conference
Renaissance Washington, DC Hotel
999 9th Street, NW
Washington, DC 20001
April 26th - 29th 2008

Register now to attend NBCCF's 16th Annual Advocacy Training Conference. Join hundreds of national and international breast cancer activists in our fight to eradicate breast cancer.

NBCCF's yearly gathering helps participants hone their advocacy skills and learn about the latest in breast cancer science, research and policy. Hear directly about the controversies and issues from important leaders, scientists, and advocates. To learn more about this event and registration, visit: http://www.stopbreastcancer.org//index.php?option=com_content&task=view&id=598&Itemid=1

SUSAN'S RALLY in the Fight Against Breast Cancer
The Susan Roberson Wade Memorial Car Rally
Save the Dates: Rally - April 27, 2008
Golf Tournament - October 27, 2008
For more information: http://www.susansrally.org/

HOPE STONE, INC.
Save The Date for our Premiere Piece
PEACE PIECE ...May 1st, 2008
by the Kid's Play Ensemble and YouthSound
Tickets on sale soon!!!! Details TBA

Y-ME NATIONAL BREAST CANCER ORGANIZATION
Houston Walk to Empower, Non-Competitive 3-mile Walk
Mother's Day, Sunday, May 13, 2007
Check-In Begins: 7:30 a.m. Walk Begins: 9:00 a.m.
Sam Houston Park, Houston, Texas

During the past 15 years, Y-ME’s Mother’s Day Events have raised more than $26 million to help ensure that no one faces breast cancer alone. In 2006, $6 million was raised. Please join us this year -- you’ll be proud to know that your support will help Y-ME continue providing its essential programs and services to people and their loved ones touched by breast cancer.
For more details: http://houstonwalk.y-me.org/site/PageServer? pagename=MDE_HTX_homepage

M.D. ANDERSON 3-DAY WELLNESS CONFERENCE
Living Fully with and beyond Cancer
September 4 - 6, 2008
Houston Marriott Westchase
Details TBA

"UNBEATABLE"
Stages Repertory Theatre
Coming September, 2008
The new musical Unbeatable is coming to town in September 2008 in a World Premiere production produced by Houston’s acclaimed Stages Repertory Theatre. This brilliant new musical follows the true story of a strong-willed woman and her life-changing confrontation with Breast Cancer. http://www.unbeatablemusical.com/
Details TBA

SUSAN G. KOMEN RACE FOR THE CURE
Houston, Saturday October 4th, 2008
Save the Date! Details TBA

For weekly updates and additional events, please refer to: http://pinkcrusader.blogspot.com/

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Directions to Holy Cross Episcopal Church: From the corner intersection of Hwy 6 and Hwy 59: Continue South on Hwy 59. Exit at Grand Parkway-Texas 99. You will go by an H.E.B. grocery store on the right as you turn right at a traffic light to get on the Grand Parkway. Proceed to the next traffic light (River Park Drive). Turn left. You will be facing the church. Go through the next intersection (traffic light at Texas 99) and park in the church parking lot. The address is 5653 West River Park Drive. If coming from New Territory: Go to the intersection of New Territory Blvd. and Texas 99. Turn South on to Texas 99. River Park Drive is one intersection (traffic light) past New Territory Blvd. Turn right at that intersection. If coming from 90A: Turn at intersection of 90A and Texas 99 (Grand Parkway). Go South on Grand Parkway, passing Sand Hill Blvd. and New Territory Blvd. Next intersection is River Park Drive. Turn right. Church is right there.

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This concludes this month's issue of the SOS Porch Light. We encourage you to share your thoughts, suggestions, photographs and topics of interest with all members for future editions of the newsletter. Comments may be posted directly to the blog or by email to JosieSethi@aol.com
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THOUGHT OF THE MONTH:

Visit My Mail Stamp! Gonna Be A Bear

In this life I'm a woman. In my next life, I'd like to come back as a bear. When you're a bear, you get to hibernate. You do nothing but sleep for six months. I could deal with that. Before you hibernate, you're supposed to eat yourself stupid. I could deal with that, too!

When you are a girl bear, you birth your children (who are the size of walnuts) while you are sleeping and wake to partially grown, cute, cuddly cubs. I could definitely deal with that!

If you are a mama bear, everyone knows you mean business! You swat at anyone who bothers your cubs. If your cubs get out of line, you swat at them, too. I could deal with that.

If you are a bear, your mate expects for you to wake up growling. He expects that you will have hairy legs and excess body fat......Yup, gonna be a bear! - Unknown


Until April, take care, stay well, and remember to spoil yourself as well as others.

BIG HUG!

Balloon Heart
Josie Sethi
Editor & Survivor
JosieSethi@aol.com

January 7, 2008

Here We Go Again!

Visit My Mail Stamp!
Happy New Year!

Welcome to the January 2008 edition of the SOS Porch Light newsletter!

DID YOU KNOW:
The name 'January,' is derived from the ancient Roman name 'Janus' who presided over the gate to the new year. He was revered as the 'God of Gateways', 'of Doorways' and 'of the Journey', later known as 'St. Januarius.' Janus protected the 'Gate of Heaven', known as the 'Lord of Beginnings', is associated with the 'Goddess Juno-Janus', and often symbolized by an image of a face that looks forwards and backwards at the same time.

This symbolism can easily be associated with the month known as for many the start of a new year bodes opportunity, casting out the old and in with the new. It is the time when many reflect on events of the previous year and often resolve to redress or improve some aspect of daily life or personal philosophy. - Source:http://www.google.com/

We hope that your new year is off to a good start with many wonderful moments and opportunities in the coming months. May 2008 be good to one and all!

BIG HUG - Josie

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Visit My Mail Stamp! SPECIAL REQUEST:

Presently, we are having difficulty gaining entrance into the church for scheduled meetings and need a volunteer, preferably someone who lives in New Territory, to offer their assistance. If you can help facilitate the process for key access prior to the meetings, please contact Rosemary Herron as soon as possible, at greatwhiteheron@alltel.net .

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Briefcase MONTHLY CONTRIBUTION:

This month's contribution comes from Marsha Yeager.

Bad Cancer Tests Drawing Scrutiny
By ANNA WILDE MATHEWS
Wall Street Journal
January 4, 2008; Page B1

Thousands of breast-cancer patients may be getting the wrong treatment because of errors in two laboratory tests widely used to determine which drugs are prescribed. The tests are used to help determine whether women with invasive breast cancer will receive drugs such as Genentech Inc.'s Herceptin, GlaxoSmithKline PLC's Tykerb and a number of antihormone medications, including the generic tamoxifen and newer treatments such as AstraZeneca PLC's Arimidex and Faslodex.

The pharmaceuticals industry is trying to develop more medicines tailored to the individual characteristics of patients and their diseases. Herceptin, which went on the market in 1998, has been hailed as a breakthrough because it is designed for a certain subset of breast-cancer patients rather than everyone who has the disease. But recent studies that turned up problems in testing point to a potential snag for such drugs: They depend on accurate lab results.

"We all make the assumption that every test is done well. It turns out it's not a correct assumption," says Lee Newcomer, a cancer doctor who is senior vice president at insurer UnitedHealth Group Inc. Several major private insurers, including UnitedHealth, Aetna Inc. and WellPoint Inc., say they will generally pay for second-opinion breast- cancer tests. However, Dr. Newcomer says that even though UnitedHealth covers a second test, few doctors order them.

In 2007, around 178,000 patients were expected to be diagnosed with invasive breast cancer in the U.S., according to the American Cancer Society. The tests relating to Herceptin and the antihomone drugs are less straightforward than many traditional lab procedures. They require pathologists to make judgment calls after looking at tissue through a microscope, rather than giving simple yes-or-no answers as in a pregnancy test.

One test examines whether a patient's tumor cells have too much of a protein called Her-2. If they do, Herceptin can help by targeting and destroying those cells. The other test checks for the presence of cell proteins that serve as receptors for the hormones estrogen or progesterone. These hormones can help tumors grow, so if the test is positive, doctors often prescribe drugs such as tamoxifen to suppress or block the hormones.

Karen Ivester, a manager at a construction firm in Boca Raton, Fla., was first diagnosed with breast cancer in 2002, when a marble-sized tumor was removed from her right breast. Ms. Ivester, 50 years old, says the local lab found her negative on both tests, meaning she wasn't given Herceptin or hormone therapy. She weathered chemotherapy and radiation. Last year, after Ms. Ivester had a shooting pain in her ribs during a golf match, doctors found her cancer had returned in the bones of her spine. The new tumor tested positive on the hormone test. More surprisingly, so did her 2002 tumor, which was retested.

Her current doctor, Chuck Vogel, says early use of tamoxifen might have headed off or delayed the cancer's return. "I was absolutely, absolutely furious to know it was wrong, it could have been wrong," Ms. Ivester says. "I lost my first line of defense, and who knows what difference it would have made."

In a study published in 2006 on Her-2 tests -- led by researchers at Genentech -- a large laboratory that is experienced in the procedures reviewed tests performed by local labs around the country. It found that 14% to 16% of those judged positive for Her-2 were actually negative. Of those judged negative, 18% to 23% were in fact positive.

After signs of problems with hormone testing at a lab in Newfoundland, tissue from 763 patients with negative results was retested at a different lab in 2005 and 2006. The new tests concluded that 317 of those were actually positive. Officials at the provincial Eastern Regional Health Authority in Newfoundland, which oversees the lab that had inaccurate tests, said they can't comment on potential causes for the problems because of an ongoing government inquiry and a class- action suit by patients. But they said the authority did pursue the issue.

In another analysis of labs in multiple countries, published online last August in the Journal of Clinical Oncology, 70% of 105 patients scored as negative on the estrogen test were relabeled as positive when the tissue was retested by an experienced lab. The analysis found that positive results were almost always correct.

"If we tried to market pregnancy tests with this rate of inaccuracy, they would be taken off the market," says Allen Gown, chief pathologist of PhenoPath Laboratories, a Seattle lab. "It means there are a lot of women being treated inappropriately." When PhenoPath checked its performance on both breast-cancer tests using different methods, its results were consistent at least 95% of the time, he said. In the U.S., such concerns could add momentum to efforts by Congress and consumer groups to push for increased oversight over the lab- testing business, which is booming because of factors such as the rise in genetic testing and the aging of the Baby Boom generation.

In 2007, overall lab revenues grew 6.5% to around $51.7 billion, according to Washington G-2 Reports, a unit of the Bureau of National Affairs Inc. "We're going to be looking at a future where diagnostic medicine will be the norm," says Pamela Klein, a vice president at Genentech. She says lab-testing consistency "can still be improved."

While every prescription drug must receive Food and Drug Administration approval, labs have considerable freedom to develop and perform their own tests. The FDA does approve certain testing kits, but labs can tweak the procedures without being required to get a regulatory sign-off on each home-grown method. Lab-industry officials say this flexibility allows them to quickly translate emerging science into help for patients. They also say labs, which must be inspected every two years by outside examiners, receive strong oversight.

"The process and the authority is there and it does work," says Alan Mertz, president of the American Clinical Laboratory Association, a trade group. "Our system across the industry is a good one, and getting better," said Mara Aspinall, president of the genetics unit at Genzyme Corp., adding she is "very confident" of her own labs' tests.

However, Rolf Ehrnstrom, corporate vice president of research and development at Dako Denmark A/S, a maker of diagnostic tests and equipment manufacturer that sells both Her-2 and hormone-receptor test kits, said that if labs follow the recommendations in testing kits, "you have a much more standardized way of doing it," and the company believes "we need to standardize and make more quality-assurance throughout the labs."

Barry M. Straube, chief medical officer at the U.S. agency that regulates labs, the Centers for Medicare and Medicaid Services, says his agency is examining tougher quality-control requirements. Now labs must pass outside proficiency checks on only 83 types of tests. That list, devised in 1992, doesn't include the breast-cancer tests or dozens of others developed more recently.

"We're considering adding additional tests," Dr. Straube said. The two breast-cancer ones are likely candidates, he says. However, he says that, in general, "oversight is good."

Starting this year, the College of American Pathologists plans to require proficiency checks from the labs it oversees if they want to offer the Her-2 test. The college and the American Society of Clinical Oncology, which issued guidelines for the Her-2 test a year ago, estimated that around 20% of Her-2 testing may be inaccurate.The two groups also plan to look at the other breast-cancer test.

Some industry executives reject the notion that tests are often inaccurate. Joseph Purvis, executive director of clinical research oncology at drug maker AstraZeneca, says he hasn't seen evidence of extensive problems with hormone tests. "I don't think most patients should worry about the quality," he says.

But pathologists and cancer doctors say labs inexperienced in a particular test may not always understand how small variations in procedure can affect results. Reviews of hormone-receptor tests show that findings can change depending on how much the tissue samples are heated and what preservative is used.

Pathologists at Intermountain Healthcare, a hospital group based in Salt Lake City, found that results varied based on the day of the week a patient had surgery -- apparently because tissue that sat in a refrigerator or in preservative over the weekend was different from tissue examined quickly. Intermountain has since changed its procedures.

Hormone-testing methods are "a chaos," says Soonmyung Paik, director of the pathology division at the National Surgical Adjuvant Breast and Bowel Project, a nonprofit clinical research group, because "every lab uses a different method and different criteria to call a case positive."

Write to Anna Wilde Mathews at anna.mathews@wsj.com
Copyright 2007 The Associated Press

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Get Well Soon SOS SURVIVOR UPDATE

Michelle Amos

We send ongoing prayers and well-wishes to Michelle for a speedy recovery following recent surgery.

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Visit My Mail Stamp! FROM THE KITCHEN: New Year, New You!

Raise your hand if you ate a bit too much during the holidays and are now paying the piper. Come on, raise 'em up. Just as we thought — quite a few hands! Forget the fad diets and their bland cuisine. With lightened up recipes and support in our Diet Forums, you can start living a healthier lifestyle right now!

We have low-fat, low saturated fat and low-calorie recipes that are so sinful and indulgent, your taste buds won't know what they're missing!All the info you need to stay on track is here — every one of our recipes displays the nutritional information at a quick glance. Another figure-friendly tool to try: our Recipe Sifter! Combine a few of our categories to whittle down your list, or search by any nutritional variable you like. Want to only see Main Dishes with fewer than 300 calories per serving? Done! (We've got more than 1,500!) With our help, you'll be glad to pay the piper. Heck, you'll feel so happy and healthy, you might even give him a tip!

Source: Recipe Zaar http://www.recipezaar.com/sitenews/post.php?pid=892

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Lazy Day Quick Fix:

Incredible Turkey Chili by Mrs Caz
6 servings
4½ hours 20 min prep

1 lb ground turkey
1 large onion, chopped
1 green bell pepper, chopped
1 (14 ounce) can chicken broth
2 teaspoons chili powder (or more, according to your preference)
1/2 teaspoon ground allspice
1/4 teaspoon ground cinnamon
1/4 teaspoon paprika
1 (15 ounce) can black beans, rinsed and drained
1 (14 ounce) can diced tomatoes
2 teaspoons cider vinegar
1 (14 ounce) can corn

Brown turkey with onion and green pepper until turkey is no longer pink.
Combine all ingredients in crock pot or slow cooker.
Cook on low 4-5 hours.

© 2007 Recipezaar. All Rights Reserved. http://www.recipezaar.com/
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From Josie Sethi:

This is a great idea. Do it now before you forget, and please forward to your family and friends:

From Paul A. Levine, MD, FHRS, FACCSpread the word!! We all carry our mobile phones with names & numbers stored in its memory but nobody, other than ourselves, knows which of these numbers belong to our closest family or friends.

If we were to be involved in an accident or were taken ill, the people attending us would have our mobile phone but wouldn't know who to call. Yes, there are hundreds of numbers stored but which one is the contact person in case of an emergency? Hence this "ICE" (In Case of Emergency) Campaign.

The concept of "ICE" is catching on quickly. It is a method of contact during emergency situations. As cell phones are carried by the majority of the population, all you need to do is store the number of a contact person or persons who should be contacted during emergency under the name "ICE" ( In Case of Emergency).

The idea was conceived by a paramedic who found that when he went to the scenes of accidents, there were always mobile phones with patients, but they didn't know which number to call. He therefore thought that it would be a good idea if there was a nationally recognized name for this purpose. In an emergency situation, Emergency Service personnel and hospital Staff would be able to quickly contact the right person by simply dialing the number you have stored as "ICE." For more than one contact name, simply enter ICE1, ICE2 and ICE3 etc.

Let's spread the concept of ICE by storing an ICE number in our Mobile phones today! Please forward this. It won't take too many "forwards" before everybody will know about this It really could save your life, or put a loved one's mind at rest . ICE will speak for you when you are not able to.

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From : Susan G. Komen for the Cure

Great news! Thanks to the efforts of Champions like you, Congress has passed legislation to extend the Breast Cancer Research Stamp four more years, through 2011. The House of Representatives passed the bill on Tuesday, and the Senate followed suit last night. The bill now awaits signature by President Bush.

This victory would not have been possible without the dedication and tireless efforts of more than 50,000 Komen Champions for the CureTM who let Congress know how important the stamp is through petitions, letters, and phone calls.

Now, let's thank Congress for doing its part. Senators Dianne Feinstein (D-CA) and Kay Bailey Hutchison (R-TX) and Representative William Lacy Clay (D-MO) spearheaded the effort in Congress to extend the life of the Breast Cancer Research Stamp.
Thank these legislators for their leadership!

The Breast Cancer Research Stamp is the top-selling commemorative stamp of all time. Since the program started in July 1998, more than 785 million stamps have been sold, raising more than $58.3 million for breast cancer research. The extension of the stamp will allow Americans to continue contributing to the fight against breast cancer and raising awareness about the disease. Send your thank you note now.

Congratulations on this victory in the battle to end breast cancer forever. This achievement would not have been possible without your efforts.

Sincerely, Diane Balma
Susan G. Komen for the Cure Advocacy Alliance

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From Julia Kerner

Today...I wish you a day of ordinary miracles
A fresh pot of coffee you didn't have to make yourself.
An unexpected phone call from an old friend.
Green stoplights on your way to work or shop.
I wish you a day of little things to rejoice in...
The fastest line at the grocery store.
A good sing along song on the radio.
Your keys right where you look.
I wish you a day of happiness and perfection-little bite-size pieces of
perfection that give you the funny feeling that the Lord is smiling on you,
holding you so gently because you are someone special and rare.
I wish You a day of Peace, Happiness and Joy.

They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciatethem, a day to love them, but then an entire life to forget them. - Unknown

Wishing you the very best for 2008 - Julia

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January 1st AROUND & ABOUT HOUSTON Mark Your Calendars!

ASK THE EXPERT - M.D. Anderson Cancer CenterWould you like to talk to an M. D. Anderson expert about Nutrition and Cancer? Dena Norton, Senior Clinical Dietitian at M. D. Anderson, joins Ask the Expert January 7-11 to answer patients' and their caregivers' questions about nutrition and cancer.

Ask the Expert, Anderson Network's online message board, allows cancer patients and caregivers to submit questions to M. D. Anderson experts on specific topics. Subscribe or log on to the board at www.mdanderson.org/asktheexpert to submit questions January 7-11, 2008 or to view past topics archived on the site. These topics include lymphedema, clinical trials, fatigue, cancer prevention, patient safety, exercise and bone health, as well as site-specific questions and answers.

SOS SURVIVOR GROUP MEETING
Tuesday, January 8, 7:00 - 9:00 pm
Holy Cross Episcopal Church
Directions Below.

HOPE STONE
World Premiere of "See Me"Just hit our sweet new website (http://www.hopestoneinc.org/ ) go to the MONEY MATTERS tab and buy yourself some tickets for a good ole fashion art date! Hey, you can even buy one or two for a deserving child.....they make handy holiday gifts as well! Come early to see photographer Simon Gentry's silent no more photo exhibit in the green room (doors open 6:15 p.m.)Vitals: Jan 10 & 11, 2008, 7:30 p.m., Cullen Theater, Wortham CenterNote: SEE Me Tickets so on sale! http://www.hopestoneinc.org/ http://www.stubdog.com/ (1/2 price tickets...great for tight holiday budgets!)

THE ALICE THOMSEN LYMPHEDEMA AWARENESS GROUP of Houston Meetings are scheduled on the 3rd Tuesday of every other month at the American cancer Society Building, 6301 Richmond (between Hillcroft and Fountainview) at 7:00pm. Due to numerous factors the January 2008 meeting is being cancelled. We are sorry for this disappointing news but hope you will join us on March 18, 2008 at 7 pm
Hope to see you then, Cynthia Gdula.

PINK RIBBONS PROJECT FUND RAISER
St. Thomas High School vs. Westside High School, 6 P.M., Saturday, February 2, 2008 at
St. Thomas High School - Hotze Field (in Granger Stadium), 4500 Memorial Drive
Cost is $5.00 Proceeds from the day will benefit Pink Ribbons Project, in motion against breast cancer, and St. Thomas High School Rugby.

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Directions to Holy Cross Episcopal Church:
From the corner intersection of Hwy 6 and Hwy 59: Continue South on Hwy 59. Exit at Grand Parkway-Texas 99. You will go by an H.E.B. grocery store on the right as you turn right at a traffic light to get on the Grand Parkway. Proceed to the next traffic light (River Park Drive). Turn left. You will be facing the church. Go through the next intersection (traffic light at Texas 99) and park in the church parking lot. The address is 5653 West River Park Drive. If coming from New Territory: Go to the intersection of New Territory Blvd. and Texas 99. Turn South on to Texas 99. River Park Drive is one intersection (traffic light) past New Territory Blvd. Turn right at that intersection. If coming from 90A: Turn at intersection of 90A and Texas 99 (Grand Parkway). Go South on Grand Parkway, passing Sand Hill Blvd. and New Territory Blvd. Next intersection is River Park Drive. Turn right. Church is right there.
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This concludes this month's issue of the SOS Porch Light. We encourage you to share your thoughts, suggestions, photographs and topics of interest with all members for future editions of the newsletter. Comments may be posted directly to the blog or by email to JosieSethi@aol.com

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Ball Drop THOUGHT OF THE MONTH:

Recipe for a Happy New Year
Take twelve fine, full-grown months; see that these are thoroughly free from old memories of bitterness, rancor and hate, cleanse them completely from every clinging spite; pick off all specks of pettiness and littleness; in short, see that these months are freed from all the past—have them fresh and clean as when they first came from the great storehouse of Time. Cut these months into thirty or thirty-one equal parts. Do not attempt to make up the whole batch at one time (so many persons spoil the entire lot this way) but prepare one day at a time.

Into each day put equal parts of faith, patience, courage, work (some people omit this ingredient and so spoil the flavor of the rest), hope, fidelity, liberality, kindness, rest (leaving this out is like leaving the oil out of the salad dressing— don’t do it), prayer, meditation, and one well-selected resolution. Put in about one teaspoonful of good spirits, a dash of fun, a pinch of folly, a sprinkling of play, and a heaping cupful of good humor. - Anonymous

Until next month, take care, stay well, and have a delightful year!

Happy New Year
Josie Sethi
Editor & Survivor
JosieSethi@aol.com